Confusion on the Battlefield

Okay so I have this problem...I'm being tossed between love. I love my ex Paul with all my heart, yet he doesn't want a relationship. Then there is Andrew. He's a sweetheart and cares a lot about me. We flirt all the time, cuz that's how we are. Then there is Travis. He cares a lot about me and cant make up his mind between me and a girl back home. Who apparently is a lot like me personality wise. Ive dated all 3 of them and am confused as shit. I have feelings for all 3. I just cant choose who I have stronger feelings for. Paul I was with for 10 months. He will always have a part of my heart. Andrew saved me from depression yet hurt me with his alcohol problems but has gotten better. Travis is just confused yet has helped me through some tough shit and says he loves me. Just like Paul says yet Paul isn't IN love with me but loves me. I'M SO CONFUSED!